Not your usual dating app
Text-first personal ads for open-minded people. Say what you're looking for in your own words. No swiping, no one-word bios, no games.
Text-first personal ads for open-minded people. Say what you're looking for in your own words. No swiping, no one-word bios, no games.
For anyone who wants to say what they're actually looking for. Casual dating, open relationships, kink-friendly connections, something platonic. Post across 6 categories, tag posts as kink-friendly or vanilla, and search by 90+ roles.
For people frustrated with classifieds where anyone can message you, or swipe apps where profiles say nothing. Here, you control who sees your posts, who can reply, and what a reply needs to include. Available worldwide on iOS and Android, free to use.
AseeksB sits between two categories that have historically served different users: classified-ad platforms (text-first, direct intent, no profile mechanics) and swipe-based dating apps (photo-first, algorithmic, mutual match required). AseeksB takes the text-first ad format from the former and the native mobile app, safety controls, and moderation tools from the latter — while removing what did not work from either. It is free to use, available worldwide on iOS and Android, and does not require a subscription for any feature.
See how we stack up against classifieds sites, kink-friendly social networks, and swipe-based dating apps.
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| Feature | AseeksB | Classifieds | Kink social | Swipe apps |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Native iOS & Android app | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✓ |
| Text-first personal ads | ✓ | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Multiple posts per user | ✓ (7) | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ |
| 90+ kink role search | ✓ | ✕ | ✓ | ✕ |
| Couples-friendly | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | Varies |
| Control who can message you | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Control who sees your posts | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Require photos in replies | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Minimum message length | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| One message until you reply | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Report after unmatching | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Message moderation | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | Varies |
| free to use | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✕ |
Unlike classifieds, you control who can message you, filter by intent, and require photos in replies. Less spam, fewer low-effort responses, before they ever reach you.
Real posts from real people. Here's what the app actually looks like.
Every post has a minimum character requirement. No more one-word bios or profiles that only link to social media. Say what you want, how you want to say it, across up to 7 posts at a time.
Set your post's audience by gender, age, and distance. Choose whether traveling users can see your post. Only the people you want to hear from can message you. Hide posts or entire profiles that don't interest you.
Report posts, profiles, or messages that break our guidelines, even after you've unmatched. Reported content is removed from everyone's board. One initial message per post until you reply. No pestering.
Free on iOS and Android.
On swipe-based apps, the photo is the primary filter. You swipe on an impression, match, and then figure out compatibility. On AseeksB, you write what you're looking for before any conversation begins — and so does everyone else. The result is that the first message in any thread is already about something: the person read your ad and decided it matched what they wanted.
Most dating apps give you one profile to represent yourself. AseeksB allows up to 7 active posts at once across 6 categories. You can post a casual ad, a kink-specific ad, and a couples-seeking ad simultaneously — each with its own audience settings and messaging controls.
Posters set who can see their post (by gender, age, distance) and what a sender must include to reach them (a photo, a minimum-length message, or both). Senders are limited to one opening message until the poster replies. These are structural controls enforced technically by the app — not optional settings.
AseeksB supports kink-friendly content natively. Users can tag posts with up to 5 kink-related roles from a list of 90+, and searchers can filter results by any combination of those roles. This makes AseeksB one of the only platforms where kink role specificity is a first-class search feature.
All key features on AseeksB are free to use. You can post ads, search, message, and use audience controls without ever paying. A subscriber mode is available for users who want to support the platform.
Yes. All key features are free. A subscriber mode is available for those who want it. All key features are free to use.
Yes. AseeksB is a native app on iOS (App Store) and Android (Google Play). It is not web-only.
Yes. AseeksB is available worldwide. Users can post from their current location or use traveling mode to search and post from any city.
Yes. Couples can post ads and search for other couples or individuals. Full shared couples accounts are on the product roadmap.
AseeksB uses the same text-first personal ad format as Craigslist Personals (which closed in 2018), but adds a native mobile app, kink role search, audience controls, messaging controls, and post-unmatch reporting.
More questions? See the full FAQ or the About AseeksB page.