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Historical phrase

Photographs exchanged

A phrase from historical newspaper personal ads, explained with real examples from the archive.


An offer, or a condition, that both sides would send each other a picture.

TypeHistorical phrase
Earliest example in the archiveDecember 12, 1872, New National Era
Most common1860s to the 1920s

History

As photographs became easier and cheaper to have made in the second half of the nineteenth century, a portrait could become part of a courtship by mail. Photographs exchanged promised fairness: each side would see the other.

In the archive

Today

The same question every text-first personals app faces: when, and whether, to share a photo.

Related terms

CorrespondentIn confidence

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